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December 2006
Happy Thanksgiving,
We just celebrated Thanksgiving Day here at Talitha Cumi. Many people visited with us and shared our North American customs, food, and fellowship. The girls’ pumpkin drawings were on the wall with a list of their blessings, and cranberry sauce was on the table. Many people were invited. Counting the girls, we probably had about 70 that attended our Thanksgiving feast. I looked at some and thought, "Who are you? I have never seen you before in my life!" We were thankful that even strangers felt welcome to come and dine with us.
The girls shared with our guests a presentation of songs they had learned during the year. Other than a few technical difficulties with the CD player, it went fine. The CD player was working; however, the difficulty occurred when the girl who played the music and knew where all the songs were located on the CD, became extremely shy and wouldn't come in the room to change the CD. We worked through it, even to our advantage, because we were running late with lunch. Earlier that day we were all working away and Reina came in and said, "My neck feels funny". She had a huge knot on the side of her neck. Since Hondurans do not celebrate Thanksgiving Day, the doctor's office was open. She had an infection in her glands. When she came back, she was not very thankful for the shots she received. While waiting on us to return, our guests enjoyed the girls and the fellowship with one another.
Our guests included the workers with their famiies, friends from Yamaranguila, some friends and officials from La Esperanza, Pastor Jesus and his family, and Brenda and Angela’s youth pastor from Tegucigalpa. Ana Patricia, one of our very first girls, came home for the holidays.
We had made apple pies, pumpkin pies out of a green squash (which doesn't look appetizing but you just close your eyes and it tastes the same), cream cheese, and fresh strawberry pie. Sarah, Jessica, Angela, and I made thirteen pies in all. We had already made the pie crusts with the lard from the hog we killed for the Thanksgiving Day feast. We really did a lot of preparation before our holiday began.
Our baby boy, Gabriel, is growing, and he is beautiful. We are thankful to have him here. He is the most cared for baby who ever was. His diapers get changed with every caregiver, and we have a lot of girls who want to play with him. I had to set a time limit so that everyone has an opportunity to love him.
We received a phone call two days ago that an abandoned newborn baby girl is in the hospital. They want us to keep her until the adoptive parents are approved. The neat thing is the potential adoptive parents go to Angela and Brenda's church. When I told Brenda about Gabriel, she told her landlady. The lady knew a couple that couldn't have children, and suddenly we are an agency in an afternoon's time. God is so good to work out all those connections. We thank God for cell phones. Pray that the baby girl is in good health. I know she will be loved.
I want to report that I had my first official senior moment. I had just received baby Gabriel from the judge. The next night was movie night with the kids. They were watching a movie about a high school for super heroes. While I was sitting on the sofa with the girls all around the room, I got warm and dozed off. It doesn't matter if the movie is boring or exciting; I always doze off. That is what I do in this season of my life. I heard a baby cry and was startled. I jumped to my feet and tried to run to my room where the baby was. What I didn't know was that I had fallen asleep with my legs crossed, and my right foot had gone to sleep. I fell and felt my foot bend in the opposite direction that the Lord created it to go. I thought, "What is wrong with my foot?", but still got up to go see about the baby and fell again. Finally, I figured out what was going on. I had no pain when my ankle twisted to and fro, because my foot was asleep. To make matters worse, the baby was sleeping soundly. What I actually heard was a baby crying on the video. After the injury, the girls were so sweet and tried to help me. We all had a good laugh about what happened. We just have to be thankful for the humor in bad situations. I took my cast off yesterday and am doing fine.
I went into the judge’s office last week to get the baby's vaccination card. The judge had to order the parents to bring the card in. As I was waiting for them to let me know the status on the card, the public defender walked in and said, "We have a girl we need you to take." Apparently, the little girl lived with her grandmother most of her life until her grandmother died. Then she went to an aunt that mistreated her terribly. A professional woman in the community saw what was going on and brought her into her home to make tortillas and clean her house. The girl had never gone to school a day in her life. Hence, the judge took her from the professional lady and sent her to us. She is a worker, and her hands reflect the kind of hard work she has done all her life. She is twelve and very loving. Her name is Brenda Patricia. She is so thankful for everything. Please pray that she continues to be blessed by living here. It is a blessing when we see her coming, because we know she is going to be thankful for something.
I want to have that posture this holiday season. I hope I can continue to praise the Lord and be thankful unto Him and bless His holy name on a moment-by-moment basis. I am thankful to be here and to be involved with the girls. I thank the Lord for the initial vision of the farm, which was to reach out to girls in difficult situations and ask the Lord to reveal to them how he intended a family to live together.
We ask God’s blessings on all of you who continue to pray for us. Our heart’s desire is for you to have a thankful holiday season.
Pam, Sarah, Angela, Jessica, Brenda, Anastacia, Ana Patricia, Mireya, Ezequeila,(Kayla) Cruz, Carina, Lucy, Zulmin, Lizzy, Caterine, Sonia, Yency, Keiryn, Norma, Esmerelda (Mera), Cinthia, Evelyn, Reina, Kency, Angela, Gabi, Lina, Meri, Rosi, Doris, Angel Gabriel, and Brenda Patricia, and the newborn.
(Written by Pam Demott)
"Give thanks in all circumstances for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus." ~1 Thessalonians 5:18
As we go into the holiday season, the Board of Directors would like to thank all of you who have supported us throughout the year with your prayers, labors, and finances.
May God bless you and yours,
SIKM Board of Directors
I sometimes go to the houses at night to check on the girls. This particular night, I went because the rain had knocked the electricity out and we had only 3 candles. I went to make sure the little ones were in bed, and that things were in order. Well, I went into one of the houses and I noticed smoky haze in the house. The school teacher answered the door and was looking a little bewildered. I asked her if she was cooking something on the cook stove. She said, “No”. “Then why is there smoke in the house?” I asked. She looked a little spooky with red blood shot eyes under the surveillance of my flashlight. Before she could answer, I heard scuffling noises in one of the bedrooms. I took my flashlight and opened the closed wooden door, and beheld two of my older girls looking up at me from a squatting position on the floor. On the cement tiled floors was a pile of rocks. On the rocks were some kindling wood and twigs and some large pieces of wood over to the side of the now smoldering coals. It looked like they were on a camping trip. They had gotten cold and were tired of the dark, and so it just made perfect sense to them to start the fire on the floor in the middle of the two bunk beds. Because they were cold, they decided to keep all the doors and windows closed. After I shared about the possible fire hazards of campfires being to close to blankets and sleeping children and the effect of smoke in a closed house, I left. I know that it was a very serious situation, but I couldn’t help but laugh at all the different expressions I saw on the faces of the ones that were living in the house.
They decided also that because of all the rain they would mop their floors, which was commendable, but then they decided to use these floors like a Slip N’ Slide. A couple of days later in a torrential downpour they decided to play outside like they were washing clothes on a rock. They were kneeling down and letting the water from above wash over them. When I saw them I only thought of all the contents of contamination that had flowed from the cow pasture from above.
There has been some quarreling, a lot of tattling from being so closed up with one another. The older ones were trying to get to the outside world with Internet and when it rained the satellite dish wasn’t working. They had to unplug the connection and plug it back up again and wait expectantly for the little green blinking light that signified that the Internet was up and running again. Frustration had moved into the camp.
Well, we have done some creative things to keep them from collapsing into complete bedlam. We have been watching some old movies, like the Music Man; afterwards we had a “shapoopee” dance contest. We have done movie night on Friday night, Saturday afternoon, and Sunday evening. We buy Chinese take out on Saturday afternoon. Sarah and I found a large cache of games that had never been opened in the top of my library. We got them out and showed the girls how to play checkers. We had carpet matted checkerboards, wooden checkerboards, travel checkerboards, and the ordinary red and black checkerboards with the plastic pieces to match. Sonia, one of our 10 year olds, caught on the quickest and she challenges anybody to a game. We opened and explained the rules to Chutes and Ladders, High O Cherry O, Bingo games, matching games, pick up sticks and a fancy deluxe version of Candyland. The girls love the competition and they are diverted from the weather outside.
Another change that had to be made was that we opened our unfinished kitchen and dining hall. For quite some time the girls have been carrying their pots and plates to my house where apparently the central kitchen of the farm had been established. At mealtime however, though I tried, I couldn’t house everybody to sit and eat a meal. If they left with their plates, I noticed they were eating with their fingers on the way to the house, and discarding their plates before they arrived. If they did arrive with their plates to their houses, they were eating on their beds or wherever. During all this rain, it was extremely dangerous for them to walk in a lightening storm in the pouring rain with stainless steel pots. Not to mention the water they would have to drain out of their food before they arrived home. There has been no sense of a family sitting down to supper, so we needed to make change.
We took the tables and chairs from the mission house. I took the stove from my house and then we had two stoves in the other houses that were identical. We robbed parts off of one to put to put on the other to make one functioning stove. The refrigerators from the other two houses we commandeered for this project also. We called in a carpenter and he made us a temporary serving table to go over the cement blocks that ran down the middle of the room. He is also making the back door and the door for the pantry. There was a large stainless steel sink that Pat Schaer, Corrie Schaer’s mom, left years ago. The carpenter installed that in an old table from the bakery, and Chilo got the sink plumbed up. We brought one of the larger gas cook stoves, that had been sent down and that makes the hot chocolate every morning for 30 people, 23 children and three teachers, Angela and Jessica Wyman, who have recently come to help us, Sarah and me. Our table is strategically located facing the tables to help them to be able to remember to use napkins, and all their other table manners. Chilo poured a cement pad at the entrance and blocked in steps at the back door. I bought a couple of large potted palms to go beside the glass door entrance this week. The girls all said it looks like a fancy restaurant. This new dining hall/kitchen is also the new location of all the boxes of games. The girls rush in at any available extra minute to play a board game on the dining room tables. We have all thoroughly enjoyed fellowshipping, cooking, and taking our meals together.
Doris, our newest temporary (but is looking permanent) girl, is settling in quite nicely. I think she used to be a vendor on the street, because she will call the girls to supper and you can hear this tiny little girl all over the farm. I went to get the paperwork for her and for Norma. Norma needs her birth certificate before she can graduate from the 6th grade. Norma has been here five years without knowing her birth date. We just made up one for her to have. She was so excited to find out that her birthday is January 1st of 2001, that she is an official citizen in her country. She is a year older than what she thought. She will be twelve in a few months. While I was waiting on my documents, another court official that I know walked in, with a large group of angry folks. There was a discussion about the paternity of a baby. I wasn’t paying attention, because I was trying to get my paperwork. The official looked at me and said “What do you think about this baby?” I said, “He is adorable.” He said, “Wouldn’t you like to have him?” I said, “Sure, why not?” thinking we were all teasing. Five minutes later, I had the paperwork for Doris and for the 3-month-old baby boy. His name is Angel Gabriel, and only when he is hungry does he tell the good news. He is the sweetest baby and of course, it is temporary.
We have purchased new uniforms for the girls. Their clothes were showing signs of a lot of wear, and after talking to the Board, we decided to get the girls uniforms. The name of our school is the David Wilson School. Our colors are now red and black. They have a pleated black skirt and white shirt, with white socks and black leather shoes. They have a jogging suit that has black pants and a red hooded jogging suit top that has PTC written on the front with black tennis shoes. They also have a red and black paneled skirt. I am starting yet another website. You can see our girls’ new look there very soon. It is www.jesuslovesptc.faithweb.com Jessica will be helping me, but for right now, it is a work in progress. Thanks for all the folks who sent the undergarments and socks for this part of our makeover.
I have mentioned Jessica several times. Jessica Wyman is from New Hampshire and stayed with us years ago for about 3 months. She is a musician and graduated from Elim Bible College. She is a tremendous blessing to all of us. She is running the school right now. Next week she will have the girls back on the ABEKA video program. They study Spanish in the mornings and English in the afternoon. The girls are doing so well with their studies. We appreciate all the hard work Jessica is putting in to get this part of our school operational.
We have had some wonderful new changes that have happened this month. We are anticipating a new family that is coming to help us continue with the vision of Project Talitha Cumi. Their names are Keith and Johanna Daniels and their son, Tanner. They have been appointed the new directors over PTC. We are looking forward to their arrival and the blessing of the Lord they will bring with them to share with all of us.
Please pray for us during our time of transition. There have been many positive things going on recently and some things that have been very sad to us. Some of the older girls have gone to work as translators with another newly established ministry. Some have left smaller siblings and family members behind. Because we have been together so long as a family, we all feel their absence. Pray that they will be blessed in their new vocation.
Thanks to all of you who continue to pray and support the girls here. Sarah and I are so blessed to be here with them. Pray that we will continue to go forward in the plans the Lord has for us all. Blessings, Pam, Sarah, Angela, Jessica, Brenda, Anastacia, Ezequeila,(Kayla) Cruz, Carina, Lucy, Zulmin, Lizzy, Caterine, Sonia, Yency, Keiryn, Norma, Esmerelda(Mera), Cinthia, Evelyn, Reina, Kency, Angela, Gabi, Lina, Meri, Rosi, Doris, Angel Gabriel.
October 2006
Greetings,